The Only Sure Thing
I was reading the Blog of Death and found that on their list of Dead Playboy Playmates, a remarkable amount of these women met tragic ends via accidental drug overdoses (Anna Nicole and Marilyn Monroe, for example) or they were in fatal car wrecks (can blond bimbos not handle a car??) or they were murdered. This does not bode well for women who make a living in the sex industry.
Actually, yesterday I was at 7-11 and while I waited for some dumb broad to be convinced by the cashier that they HAD given her the amount of Quick Pick Lotto numbers she'd bought, I glanced down at the magazine rack and noticed Maxim. It of course had a famous woman in a bra on the cover. It makes me mad as I've said before that women are still expected- or worse, that we've gone back to this expectation from years back- to be sex objects in order to get the same fame and recognition their male counterparts get by just being actors. This month's hot ticket is TV's newest Lois Lane, as portrayed by Erica Durance on "Smallville". I love Superman and related things but "Smallville" has departed so much from the original and most traditional story behind the Man of Steel that I can't watch it. Such as Lois Lane meeting Clark Kent while he was still IN Smallville. This is ridiculous. Anyway, it's even more ridiculous for Erica Durance to allow herself to be photographed and featured in a bra on this scummy magazine. She should rely soley on talent, shouldn't she, for her fame. I mean, she's worn less on the show I think so it might not seem like a big deal but that's precisely the point! Most people would point to Tom Welling's frequent shirtlessness on the show as equality between the sexes but I'm not saying it should be done at all, to either gender. I think that the show's refusal to show a young Superman in his famous tight blue suit has forced them to convince viewers that Tom Welling is a viable Man of Steel by displaying his physique the next best way: in the raw. I'm not really certain it's meant to satisfy the petty appetites of female (and gay?) viewers.
Anyway, it seems back in August the oldest living person died in Japan to be replaced by an American woman born in 1893! Today, my own grandfather would have turned 100 had he lived. To mark the occasion, his favorite child, my dad's little adopted sister, flew to New York and is in Yankee Stadim right now in honor of her daddy's obsession with baseball in general and the Yankees in particular. He died at the age of almost 95 and his wife of 70 years died last year at the same ripe old age.
Actually, yesterday I was at 7-11 and while I waited for some dumb broad to be convinced by the cashier that they HAD given her the amount of Quick Pick Lotto numbers she'd bought, I glanced down at the magazine rack and noticed Maxim. It of course had a famous woman in a bra on the cover. It makes me mad as I've said before that women are still expected- or worse, that we've gone back to this expectation from years back- to be sex objects in order to get the same fame and recognition their male counterparts get by just being actors. This month's hot ticket is TV's newest Lois Lane, as portrayed by Erica Durance on "Smallville". I love Superman and related things but "Smallville" has departed so much from the original and most traditional story behind the Man of Steel that I can't watch it. Such as Lois Lane meeting Clark Kent while he was still IN Smallville. This is ridiculous. Anyway, it's even more ridiculous for Erica Durance to allow herself to be photographed and featured in a bra on this scummy magazine. She should rely soley on talent, shouldn't she, for her fame. I mean, she's worn less on the show I think so it might not seem like a big deal but that's precisely the point! Most people would point to Tom Welling's frequent shirtlessness on the show as equality between the sexes but I'm not saying it should be done at all, to either gender. I think that the show's refusal to show a young Superman in his famous tight blue suit has forced them to convince viewers that Tom Welling is a viable Man of Steel by displaying his physique the next best way: in the raw. I'm not really certain it's meant to satisfy the petty appetites of female (and gay?) viewers.
Anyway, it seems back in August the oldest living person died in Japan to be replaced by an American woman born in 1893! Today, my own grandfather would have turned 100 had he lived. To mark the occasion, his favorite child, my dad's little adopted sister, flew to New York and is in Yankee Stadim right now in honor of her daddy's obsession with baseball in general and the Yankees in particular. He died at the age of almost 95 and his wife of 70 years died last year at the same ripe old age.
8 Comments:
At 1:05 PM, lucy4 said…
You have some good genes there. Your great aunt is still kicking too.
As I get older, I don't really care that much about chicks wearing skimpy clothes for covers as I did before. I think no one can "use" you unless there's something in you that feels you are being used. Like Demi Moore and her pregnancy pics and those older Dove ladies, I think being proud of your body is empowering.
Though it's hard to judge how far is too far because after that might be Playboy then porn... But I think it's a balance of using your intellect and having a good sense of your sexuality to really be complete.
At 2:39 PM, RV3 said…
My friend read a report saying that if all of us live for the next 20 years, we will be around for great medical breakthroughs that will enable us to live way beyond 100.
Frankly I think that is kind of scary...
At 6:31 PM, waldocarmona said…
The thing is most of the women I've seen on Maxim are already famous like Fergie or Erica, so I don't think they really need the exposure to become even more famous. Erica Durance is engaged and very intelligent, I saw her speak in San Diego at the Smallville panel. Wonder what her fiance thinks of her posing for Maxim? If he doesn't have a problem with it and neither does she, then why should I? However, I don't think Maxim is as scummy as say Penthouse or even say mainstream magazines like Vogue. I've picked up copies of those magazines out of curiosity and they're replete with topics on sex, almost exclusively, Maxim is just going for a niche in the market, straight guys and putting a shirtless Tom Welling on the cover won't sell any issues.
At 6:32 PM, waldocarmona said…
Not that im defending it mind you, that magazine is a little too frat boyish for my tastes.
At 6:40 PM, Spleengrrl said…
I think that while Erica Durance & her ilk may not feel "used" and indeed derive a sense of "pride" from being considered sex objects, I think that does NOT make it right because many young girls see that & think that there is only one recourse for them: to be pieces of meat for men to ogle. Or, they could feel as I did growing up- that I was worthless because I would never be like those women, what with being flat-chested and all. So these girls starve themselves & those who don't have the will-power to lose weight or the money or age to buy implants end up killing themselves. Obviously this will seem hysterical but the point I'm trying to make is that it is not the same for men. They have other recourses. And these women who do this might be "smart & engaged to men who don't mind" but what does that matter? Do you think of "how smart" she is when you see her naked? Or how good her relationship to her man is because he "lets her" take off her clothes??? Or how "talented" she is???? NOPE! Freaking HELEN MIRREN is talented & intelligent but SHE'S not in her bra on the cover of Maxim!!!
At 9:36 AM, Kathy said…
Maxim is super gross and exploitive.
At 10:13 AM, lucy4 said…
Men, in general, are just very obvious and low brow in their definition of beauty. I mean look at all those gay magazines that show half nude men on their covers and ads. The majority of people that stole the Marcus and Marky Mark underwear ads from bus stops were gay men (so I had read way back then).
I am not saying it's the same because women are judged more harshly (slut, whore, etc.) being on those covers than men. My views are based on ideas of freedom that should let everyone do what they want to do but in our world today, that might not be a reality.
At 4:40 PM, waldocarmona said…
I agree with Lucy
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